Friday 8 November 2013

Say what.

Uni is officially finished for 2013.. actually wait a minute, let me rephrase that, uni classes are finally finished for this year! AND exams are coming in less than two weeks.... FML. It's great that uni gives us a study break before exams start..... but one week is definitely not enough, especially for pharmacy....! There's too much to revise/memorise/do! Arghhhhhh I think I'll go bonkers.... way before exams! :P

And I swear this year is like a payback time for curtin-ers cos last year, we finished hell early and uwa-ers finished late so while they were having exams, we already finished and we teased them so much about em! Now it's the opposite! :P Their turn to tease us LOL! XD

On that note, I don't think I will be blogging for a while :( I have schedule posts to be posted everyday.... *I know that's cheating!* but it's the best I can do for now aka keeping this blog "alive" and not empty and dull during my short retirement away from blog lol :P Moreover, my life won't be that interesting anyways during this study week/break, cos all I'll be doing is [study/eat/sleep/exercise] back and forth haha! :3 I swear I will actually binge a lot!!!! And it's funny how studying pharmacy which is supposed to be about maintaining good health yet is so damn unhealthy! XD

Oh! And also I just remembered! Several of you awesomers have tumblr-ed me questions, I'll do my best in answering them all before my retirement begin! :D and also there were quite a lot of similarities of questions in regarding to make an ask.fm account.... I don't think I'm gonna make one tbh! :P Sozzles! So ya, if youse have any question/s, ask away via:

Cya! :)

Love,
Velene xoxo

228 comments:

  1. tsk tsk tsk tsk! Gonna miss you heaps melon! Good luck for your exams! :D x

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  2. so after the exams, giraffe melon will become piggy melon? :D

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    1. what's with the animals reference? O.o

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    2. she's wearing a giraffe onesie in her dp :P & she said she will binge a lot.... haha getit?

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  3. i wish you don't get too stressful! :)

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  4. awww its ok :) at least you put in thought in typing the post to be scheduled! Good luck for your finals! x

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  5. If you were from sydney id marry you in a heartbeat

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  6. I'm sure you get a lot of these messages, but you are so pretty ! (Not to mention intelligent and kind) If I looked like you, I'd be so content! :)

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  7. formspring needs to sign up and i cbf :P i'll put it here...
    i want to be pretty and smart like you.. no guy i've liked has ever gone for me. theres too many pretty girls out there

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    1. Dont say that, you just haven't met the right guy yet. Honestly, just because someones prettier, smarter, funnier etc than you or whatever shit, doesn’t mean that a certain person will choose you over them.

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    2. oopz! actually i was supposed to mean, "doesn't mean that a certain person won't choose you over them"!
      *thanks to the 2 special people who picked it up*
      Hopefully I didn't kill ur hopes or anything :OO

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    3. haha it's okay :) i got it after several times of reading it! Knew you didn't mean it like that! :D thankyouuu xo

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  8. Looking at your photos makes me sad :(
    sigh you're so pretty, I envy you..

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    1. i don’t know how to reply to this :( you shouldn’t feel sad, everyone is pretty! there's nothing to be be envy about, I’m honestly not that great >.<

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  9. I think i've seen you before but I'm not sure if it was you..

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  10. Are you single?

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  11. how do you forget someone who gave you so much memories to reminisce? and they never bothered to look back?

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    1. You continue to tell yourself that memories will stay in the past and there’s nothing you can do about it. I know it’s hard, but eventually you’ll come to your senses that it’s just not worth reminiscing those memories because all they do is give you pain.

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  12. may i have some advice? i have this problem, i like this girl but we go to different schools, we aren't friends, but i kind of stalk her like on facebook, and i really like her a lot but i don't want to talk face to face with her yet because i'm not the guy she wants to have. what should i do? it's complicated.

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    1. Well first thing is first, you should really go talk to her. Start a conversation on Facebook or something! It doesn’t hurt to give things a shot. If you don’t, how are you supposed to know what will happen?

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  13. Do you have a twitter?

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    1. haha i used too before i gave up on it LOL! Too mainstream :P

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  14. Hi, :D Okay, so I was just randomly curious: Do people you know in like 'real life' (lol) know about your blog? Like do your friends know about your blog; I guess is what I'm asking :) lol sorry I'm probably making this more 'wordy' than it has to be but I was just interested :) Okay <3 <3 <3 Thanks! :)

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  15. What's the best tip you can give to get straight A's? :)

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    1. LOL. I aint a straight A’s person myself XD But I would give these advices:
      - Don’t slack. If you receive an assignment/essay/whatever, it’s best to start it that same night. Even if the due date is a long way away, it’s best to do it bit by bit everyday so that, not only will it be less stressful, it also gives you more time to put a lot of effort and time on it therefore the end result will satisfy your teacher’s expectations.
      - Study. Study study study. Keep all your notes organised, don’t lose or throw away papers your teachers give you. They will all be your best friend when you hit the exam period.
      - Research. It doesn’t hurt to do a little more research on a topic to expand your thinking and knowledge on that particular topic. It will probably come in handy too when you write your essay or assignment and whatnot.
      - Be organised. It’s always important to know what assignment you need to do before anything else so you can hand it in on the right day with a smile. Prepare little timetables that will enable you to know how much necessary time you need to work on one particular project.
      Hopefully they help! XDD

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  16. what subjects did u do back in school - yr11 n 12?

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    1. Erm yr11 I did:

      - English 2A/B
      - Maths 3A/B
      - Maths Specialist 3A/B
      - Chemistry 2A/B
      - Physics 2A/B
      - R.E 2A/B

      And yr12 I did:

      - English 3A/B
      - Maths 3C/D
      - Maths Specialist 3C/D
      - Chemistry 3A/B
      - Physics 3A/B
      - R.E 1C/D

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    2. WOW. Your so smart! Damn 6 WACE subjects in yr11!

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    3. Ya, it was pretty full on thus dropped out wace r.e in yr 12 LOL XD

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    4. Do you need these subjects for pharmacy?

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    5. HAHAHAHAHA. Not really, except you’ll need maths and chem and human bio as a background knowledge. I had no ideaaa I want to do pharmacy till like the last minute when I had to fill in my course preferences form LOL :P Thus, did all the suicide subjects…. Like typical asian haha XDD

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    6. Did you regret doing them?

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    7. Nooo! Haha XD it was fun LOL :P I love maths back in school thus I chose to do 2 maths, chem, I like too, English and R.E were compulsory (I like them too!) and physics, well I liked in yr11 but in yr12, it was effing hard thus that’s why I didn’t choose to do engineering in uni LOL :P

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    8. Ohhhhh! Well I'm in yr9 now.. Thankyou for a detailed response :) Good luck for your exams! <3

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    9. aww no worries! :) hehe you still have plenty of time to choose! XD Thankyou! x

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  17. not to be stalkerish or anything, but which suburb do you live in?

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    1. I live at 54 Youwishbuddy Avenue. It’s in the suburb of Youthinkimgonnatellyou. If you cross the main road of Mypersonalinfo, you will pass Notforyoutoknow and then that’s where I live :)

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  18. Do you guys have kangaroos jumping up and down streets and scorpions in your house?

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    1. All the time. It gets so annoying when kangaroos knock on your front door and hop their way through your house. They’re great transport though. We Australians like to use kangaroos in replacement of cars because it’s cheaper and more efficient. Yeah we’re cool like that.

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  19. I would have asked you on tumblr, but your inbox must be too full and willl take you ages to read mine. So I'll state here:
    I've been following you for a while and I've noticed not a lot of people have been complimenting you lately. Since you are kind of my Tumblr crush (and crush in general), I might as well take the chance. :] YOU are the most pretty girl inside and out that I've ever seen. Whatever you're going through, I know you're strong enough to get through it. LOL I would get off anon but my friends might see. :P HAHA I'll ask you an actual question for your ask box next time. Bye, Velene!

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    1. Aw… :’) haha, so cute. Thanks anon! Hope you’re having a good day whoever you are. Keep being the sweet person you are :)

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  20. do you have a bf?

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  21. You are so pretty, I can't believe it took so long for so many people to notice. I wish I could see your beautiful face in person and stalk you all night long just so I could see you sleep. I know I might sound creepy but its true that when I find you, I will never let you go because you are so wonderful it'd would be impossible to find anyone like you.

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    1. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA. AWWWWWW. I would have freaked out who's this stalker.... ;) until you bursted the bubble few minek ago! hehe..... back to you, awesome pretty babe <3

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    2. Your stalker in disguise10 November 2013 at 17:36

      you know you secretly love my stalkerish ways :P

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  22. i have a shortcut on my desktop to your blog (:

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  23. you have a really amazing personality :) i wish i was more like you

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    1. I’m sure your personality is just as great! :) There’s no need to wish. Just be you! :D x

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  24. H0W d0zz I p1ck5 up G1rLZZ?

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    1. m@ngz, u k3ep t@lKinz lYk daT nd u g3t @ll da gUrlz!!!!

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  25. What's your religion? Do you believe in God?

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    1. I’m Buddhist but yeah I do believe in God. You guys are probably going to judge me and jump to conclusions so I might as well explain now. I went to a Christian primary and highschool and so it’s normal for me to have Religion class and learn the life of God/Jesus etc. But I was born and raised as a Buddhist. You can say that my family is very religious and I am quite proud to be. I follow Buddha’s teachings and beliefs but I also believe that God created this world. You may think that it’s impossible for me to believe both seeing as there can only be one creator? Wrong. Buddha isn’t the life creator. He was just a wise human being who became spiritual and who decided to change his life to become a holy figure for others.

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  26. I like your pussy

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    1. I think you’ve got the wrong person. I don’t own a cat, sorry.

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  27. tell me a dirty story

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    1. Once upon a time, I was playing outside. Then I fell in a puddle of dirty water. It was so dirty.

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  28. I bet you have a lot of guys chasing you and asking for your number

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    1. That’s not true, LOL no one is “chasing me.” And no one asks for my number either HAHA.

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  29. You have my respect.

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    1. Aw thank you :) That is possibly the best message I can ever get. Simple yet meaningful.

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  30. I was just wondering, what highschool did you attend?

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    1. Hogwarts School of Witchcraft & Wizardry. ;)

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  31. I wish you were my girlfriend... :(

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  32. You are everything a guy could ever wish for

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  33. your cute wanna root?

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    1. Nah sorry, I don’t feel like gardening tonight.

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  34. You're Asian right? (you're also cute)

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  35. Velene. You are absolutely stunning. Are you an angel in disguise? If you are, please don't return to heaven anytime soon. You seem to be a kind and loving person. Everything about you amazes me. This is me dropping by and saying hello. :)

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    1. WOW. I’m quite speechless. Thank you anon, honestly :’) You have made a girl very very very very happy <3

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  36. Hi, my bf says your hot. i feel like smackin him now LOL, what's your reply? he thinks he so cute lmao, thanks!

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    1. LOOL. Wow that’s eh awkward. Tell him that he needs to eye on his pretty girlfriend instead :P

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  37. You wanna know who's amazing, pretty, and had the cutest smile ever? Read the first word again :)

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  38. can i visit upyourass?

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    1. sure! Turn around the corner of YouWish Street & you’ll see that UpYourAss is right next to NotAvailableForyou Road.

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  39. I NEED TO VISIT PERTH ONE DAY show me around yeah? ;)

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    1. maybe.
      If you’re not some 40 year old American man, then I’ll think about it.

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  40. you duh pweety :3

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  41. so can I have your number (:?

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  42. i can relate to all your posts :3333

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  43. accept my facebook friend request? :))

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    1. do i know you? LOL. I don't accept randoms.

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    2. pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

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  44. hey mama you sexyy. ;) LOL.

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  45. add me at headjobs@hotmail.com :)

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    1. nah, how about you add me? :)
      notinterestedinaheadjob@idgaf.com

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  46. I can show you the world
    Shining shimmering splendid
    Tell me princess now when did you last let your heart decide?
    I can open your eyes, take you wonder by wonder
    over sideways and under on a magic carpet ride
    A whole new world, a new fantastic point of view.
    No one to tell us no, or where to go, or say we're only dreaming. :]

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    1. Yes, I'm Aladdin. It's nice to meet you. :]

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    2. nice to meet you too aladdin. i am abu the monkey. :)

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  47. i think your really pretty :L

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  48. bByzZzZ ! w@n7 t0 fUcK u.

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  49. What makes you smile?

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    1. Alot of things. Like alottttt. LOL but yea, I try & smile most of the time cause I reckon a smile is what makes you pretty & loving. But like what makes YOU smile? :)

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    2. You're the reason I smile everyday.

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  50. wut highschool did u go to?

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    1. im pretty sure i've already answered this.
      it’s pretty obvious i was in Gryffindor at Hogwarts Witchcraft & Wizardy School. :)

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  51. do you always follow back on tumblr?

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    1. i do follow back, only if you talk to me or i like your tumblr :)

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  52. call me maybe? :)

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  53. HEY , OMG , DO YOU LIKE JUSTICE CREW :D ?

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    1. hi! LOL, well i don’t hate them but then again, i dont really care about them either. but why? :)

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  54. what type of guy you looking for?

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    1. i’m not looking for a guy at the moment, cause i have my eyes for one. but yea, i don’t really have a type. it’s just that a guy has to make me smile & just make me laugh no matter where we are or what we’re doing. what i look for in a guy is just basically a guy with a good heart, who loves his family unconditionally & is not afraid to show it, & will show me that he loves me everyday. i want a guy that wouldn’t just easily give up on me even if we’re in a bad situation.. just a person i know i can rely on always.. you know?

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  55. omg. i just popped a boner.

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  56. What was the last date that you had your latest period?

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  57. so like wanna fuck? haha

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    1. hahaha i stalk you everyday.

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    2. kthatscreepy, LOL. im gonna stop replying to you if you keep going anon.. so either inbox me or tell me who you are; kthanks!

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  58. um, hi. Sorry to bother you with my problem but, I'm the type of person that can't say no. People rely on me to do things for them, I always let them copy of my work even though i put so much effort into it, they always make me do things i don't want to do. Some times, they don't even know i'm there, I'm like invisible. They only come to me when they want something. I cry myself thinking and hoping that things will get better, they don't understand me. They only pay attention when i'm sad or crying. I don't even know who my real friends are anymore, When i like a guy, they would always say, eww, him. He's so ugly. Then they get mad for not telling me anything, i always get excluded. They always tease me, when it's not even funny. I don't want to stay away from them because they're the only people i got. please help me. )':

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    1. Why can’t you say no? Everybody has the right to make their own decisions & have own opinions & so if these “people” ask you do shit for them, just simply say no. . . Don’t let people take advantage of you anymore because if you keep doing it, they are going to keep using you. If these people are just complete assholes to you, then seriously, what are you still doing trailing behind them for? I’d rather be myself than hang out with them. I know that if you walk off on them, you’re definitely going to find better friends. The quicker you realise that they’re not worth your time anymore, the quicker you’re going to become happier and about the guy… seriously what is it to them? Their opinions are complete useless bullshit because YOUR opinion about something/someone is all that counts. So if you like this dude, then continue liking him. Don’t just stop liking him because your “so-called” peeps said that his ugly. Like gosh, they’re such hypocrites; whether how “ugly” they say your crush is, their inner personality is much uglier. No one should ever feel left out; we’re all equal so if they keep excluding you, just walk off. Stop wasting your time on them; you’re so much better than that. Good luck! :)

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  59. My bestfriends from school don't like me anymore, because of some things, some misunderstandings, but I just want to move on from the problem and forget them. I have been hanging with other people but it just hurts to see that they are doing super fine without me, i know they talk about me a lot among themselves and to other people too. What should I do?

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    1. Why don’t you tell them the TRUTH? That there have been misunderstandings, etc? It’s going to make you feel a lot better and it could possibly mend your relationship with the girls.

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  60. Hey, so I'm in yr 8, and I have terrible grades. I really only put in effort in school about mid last term, and it's better, but I'm bad at focusing. I always sit down and try to do work, but it makes me stressed,and I really want to be successful, but it just doesn't work. I get maths tutoring, and I take fish oil to help boost my concentration,I have good breakfasts & I eat healthy and I go for walks a lot but nothing works.What should I do?If you don't know thats OK,but I need help -God bless

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    1. What you’re doing is all great! Just motivate yourself, I think. Like you said, you want to be successful. And successful people can only have succeeded if they’ve worked hard. Keep telling yourself that you can do this and the result will be absolutely amazing. It just takes time to naturally work hard without having to get distracted. Try and work your way little by little so you’re not full on stressed when exams are coming up etc.
      Aww God bless you too! :)

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  61. in all honesty, what are your opinions on fuck-buddies/friends with benefits? do you think its okay to have one?

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  62. Velene, what is YOUR opinion on people losing their virginity at the age around 13-16?

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    1. 13-14 is too young. I don’t know.. as long as you know YOU’RE ready with someone you think you have a future with. However, it’s not recommended.

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  63. I still haven't found my whole personality yet.. It's hard being myself around people other than my family. -0- it's so irritating when people seem to get annoyed by my bipolar personality, but it's actually quite difficult being yourself around strangers! any advice?

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    1. That’s perfectly normal. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Everyone is shy when they first meet new people and their true personality takes a little longer to be exposed to people you’re still not comfortable with. Just try to be more open so people can see the real you, and they’re absolutely going to love you for it! so don’t worry and just be yourself :)

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  64. Heey Velene. I need some help, recently i've been lectured by parents cos I got a bad school report and other stuff like when they're angry they always put it on me..I've been feeling down because of that, and it's not the first time. It hurts when you got yelled by your parents especially asian parents. What should I do?

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    1. I understand where you’re coming from. And honestly, back in the day whenever i got yelled at by my parents, i would get so angry and talk back and do all the things I wasn't supposed to do that would make them even more angry. But when it comes down to WHY your parents are yelling at you, you ought to sit back and put yourself into their shoes for a moment. They don’t yell at you because they hate you or whatever. That’s the complete opposite of their intentions. yes they might be angry and disappointed, but they are your PARENTS. they are the two people that NEED to put you on ground and lead you to the right path in these adolescent years. You really need to impress and make them happy if you don’t want them yelling at you. TRY your hardest next year or even just next term. Do it for yourself AND your parents. Do little things that initiate you are ready to improve like folding the clothes, washing the dishes once in a while. SHOW them that you’re willing to try harder in the things that they want you to do. Honestly, i hate it when people complain that their parents are giving them shit and then they tell me stuff like “OMG, my parents are yelling at me for getting an E.” And you know what, they didn't even try so of course they got a shit score. And they it as if it’s their own parents fault. It’s ridiculous. You need to stand on your own two feet and try harder if you want to make your parents happy. Don’t think that they’re just yelling at you because they can.

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  65. WHat's the most baddest thing you've ever done?

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    1. um.. i can’t think of anything at the moment :/ but i have definitely done bad things.. obviously haha who hasn’t

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  66. how do you deal with jealousy?

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    1. Honestly, I don’t know. Becuase when im jealous, i can’t do anything until i get over it.

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  67. I was in a relationship with this guy for a month.we broke up because he knew i self-harm and suicidal. its been 4 months and i still have feeling for him. i dont know what to do. its slowly killing.

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    1. Starters, you shouldn’t be liking a guy who broke up with you because you self-harm when really, a good boyfriend would have stayed by your side and would have given you every reason NOT to self-harm. He was supposed to give you hope and direct you to the right path. but then again, i don’t blame you for still liking him. Sometimes, no matter how much this person has done to you and how much you know he’s not worthy of you, you still like him. What worries is that you’re suicidal and it would be extremely bad if you’re really upset with this. So please, if you feel like this is just getting out of control then please seek for professional help.

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  68. i think im in love with you i dont know if its your eyes that i can stare at all night or that cute lips you have that i want to kiss but all i know is i think ive fallen for you but you live in australia :[

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    1. aw, haha. :) i don’t think that’s love but yeah.. still very sweet anon. I’m taken though so um yeah HAHA

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  69. My best friend is depressed, she's attempted to commit suicide so many times. She relies on me A LOT. I always try to be there when I can, I help her at every opportunity, but lately I've been finding that I'm getting really behind in my work and it's affecting me too. I got pulled aside by my teacher, sent to the school counsellor and got told that I may be depressed as well. I can't stop worrying about her, she's so close, but I feel as if I'm losing myself too, what do I do?

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    1. You really need to be careful. It’s great that you’re there for your friend, it really is. But at the end of the day, you need to put yourself as first priority. I know it sounds completely selfish, but if you’re to the point where you could possibly be depressed yourself, it’s time to put your friend aside and worry about yourself for the time being. I suggest you go seek for help and surround yourself with other friends too to get your mind off things. And also, get your friend to go seek professional help.

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  70. Any advice for someone who is shy and insecure and finds it hard to talk to people?

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    1. Don’t feel insecure. Everyone loves someone who is open to conversations and confident so don’t think people are going to put you down or give you the wtf look. Just think - the more you’re open to people, the more you’re going to meet new people and gain new friendships. I’m not telling you to go jump into a random big crowd and start talking, just go up to someone when they’re alone and introduce yourself or talk about something random just to boost up your confidence a little more :)

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  71. plzplzplzplz answer this!! what is the meaning of living? what's the point of life? im desperate i really need to know... plz answer

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    1. The point of life is to EXPERIENCE what life can give. Life is about loving and receiving love - that itself is more than enough reason to live your life. Life is about seeing and learning all these wonderful and amazing things in the world - countries, cultures, landscapes, absolutely everything. The point of life is to be happy. Simple.

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  72. How do I know if I have a fake friend?

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    1. When they’re only there for you/be nice to you when they need a favour from you or to use you for something.

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  73. HEYYY ahh shit you probably get these kinds of questions on a daily basis but i'll give it a goooooooo, so basically its the generic 'i feel worthless.' i constantly feel like i'm not good enough, not good enough for my friends, and especially not good enough for my parents. i'm not attractive, smart, funny, talented, gifted, sporty, ugh. i have these negative thoughts in my head and their controlling and controlling me.

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    1. Look, people get so caught up with what society thinks is considered “perfect” or “necessary” in a human that it pushes and controls people to change who they are. When in all fact, seriously, you don’t need to. You don’t need to be “attractive, smart, funny, talented, gifted, sporty” because in some aspects, you already are all of that! Just be you. You don’t need to try harder to be what people want you to be. There’s a reason why we’re all different - why no one is perfect, why some people got this and others don’t. It’s what makes us all so magnificent. You need to stop putting yourself down because quite frankly, you can and WILL be good enough for all your loved ones. YOU just need to believe that yourself. How can you expect people to respect YOU if you can’t do it yourself?

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  74. Why am I feeling insecure and always feeling like I'm treated like people's 2nd choice? Is it my fault that I'm this way?

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    1. It’s not. Don’t blame yourself. But then again, maybe you’re just THINKING that you’re second choice and you’re overacting/over thinking about it causing you to be upset? Try to see the positiveness in this. I’m sure you have friends who don’t treat you like second option.

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  75. What does it mean to be a best friend?

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    1. someone who has your back, who cares, loves you. Someone who you can trust and is there for you through your hardest times. Someone who you can just look at and both of you know what each other are thinking :)

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  76. what do you do when your bestfriends hate the person that you like? :/

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    1. Screw them. They should accept and TRY to at least like the person you like. They should be able to support you. Tell them that it hurts.

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  77. So lately I've been sorta like using my nails to cut myself. I don't have scars.. yet I just don't know what to do anymore I know that people say that it will get better but honestly whats the point? I just want to kill myself. I may seem happy on the outside but I slowly dying and depressed. Idk maybe i just want attention maybe there is something wrong with me, I just need help.

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    1. Please get off anonymous? Please? You definitely need help. And i think the best start is to get out there and seek help from someone - WITHOUT behind a grey face. As much as you think “life is not worth it” or “what’s the point anymore?”, it really isn't. I don’t need to know what you’ve gone through or how you feel to tell you that life is precious.. that whatever you’re going through, you’re going to get through it. Trust me. Trust yourself. I know depression is a serious thing where it’s not easy to overcome but that does NOT mean it is time for you to give up. Definitely not. You need help from either a friend, a family member, even a school counselor or even me if you get off anon and we’ll help you step by step. You’re not alone. I hope you know that.

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  78. HOW THE FUCK DO YOU GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE.

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  79. I know i wasn't supposed to do what i did, but i logged on to my girlfriend's Facebook and fount out that someone is flirting with her. She wasn't flirting back though, which is good, but it's making me uncomfortable. What should i do? should i tell her about it? or should i just let it pass?

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  80. I broke someones trust, I can't even forgive myself. On top of that I just don't even know whats the purpose for living, like i was just born into this world feeling this way. Problems occur everyday, i just scrape through and im hardly breathing. i'm sorry for being born into this world. I just want this misery to end.

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  81. My bestfriend's friends are talking shit about me behind my back and she's not even standing up for me. What is worse is that her friends have never met me.. what do I do?

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  82. your thoughts on facebook vs tumblr?

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  83. thanks for helping out velene :)

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  84. VELENE! Is a guy buying flowers for his bestfriend(girl) when they're casually hanging out weird? Just like a few not like a whole bunch. Do girls like that kind of stuff anymore?

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  85. I have a fear of germs not all germs. Some like school keyboards and stuff like that. Is it weird? And I get really scared being in small areas with alot of people. I freak out about these types of things. Once in a while sometimes okay but then I freak out again. Do you think it's weird?

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  86. do u ever wonder what death is like? what will happen to u when u die? I AM TERRIFIED OF DYING, i spend nights crying to myself,because this sudden wave of emotion comes over me and i start thinking and imagining what death is going to be like. the emptiness, darkness inside you..i am really scared, just knowing that this will happen to me one day really makes my stomach hurl. AND knowing that one day, my parents will be gone. please give me some advice to overcome this or ur view on death.

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  87. Hi, i kinda dissapointed with my studies and life, crush and friends. It's been a really bad week, what can i do :(

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  88. I'm thinking of suicide or running away, I'm so confused and don't know what to do my mum doesn't even love me and the only way to make her suffer is for me to kill myself please help I don't low how or what to do D:

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  89. Hi. So what do you do when nothing seems to be going right in your life and all you want to do is cry and run away from it all?

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  90. I need serious help. How do I expand (x-1)(x+1)(x+2)? Could you put the steps in as well? Sorry, I'm so stupid, hahaha

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  91. How do I tell you who I am so you'll add me? (:

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  92. i realy need some help, my friend ditched me for her bf a while ago, she wouldn't even look at me. apparently he cheated on her and now she's running back to me wanting my help. i missed her so much but she was a bitch to me, what do i do? x

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