Is it worth the argument?

I have a mind of my own and am an opinionated stubborn sass. I used to argue even when I knew I was wrong. Over the years, I learned it's important what you choose to stand up for and that arguing is not always the right nor is it an approachable way to address a certain issue. I also learned to value people who are in my life more than my ego, so I agree to disagree because everyone is different in the way they see and think.
However, standing up for what's right, what is yours, and what you want is necessary.
Choose what is worth standing up for. You don't need to agree with everything/everyone, but understand that you can agree to disagree without starting a petty argument.
Everyone has their own opinions and thoughts and that's what makes everyone uniquely different.

Loyalty isn't grey. It's black and white. You're either loyal completely, or not loyal at all. And people have to understand this. You can't be loyal only when it serves you.

Kindness.

It doesn't cost a damn thing.

I believe in being kind to everyone, even a-holes because you never know what they're going through. Maybe they just need a little sunshine after having a bad day and/or week. It literally doesn't cost a thing to be nice. It could be as simple as giving them a nice compliment, giving them a hand with groceries, or even opening the door. People underestimate the power of how a small act of kindness has an impact on others. It may be a small act to you, but that small act of kindness can turn someone's day/week around. So be a little ray of sunshine to everyone you meet because kindness goes a long way☀️💜

Where do I see myself in 10 years? What's in it for me?

In 10 yrs I see myself financially stable with my own business or with whatever I end up doing, so I can start doing charity work. Pharmacy field is awesome, but it can be physically and mentally draining. I went into it knowing I couldn't do it forever, and that's okay because nothing in life remains the same.
Currently, I'm a lifestyle beauty blogger and influencer while working full time in a pharmacy field because I believe it's never too late to start pursuing your dreams. Sure, its a lonely path, but I know it will be worth it in the end and I'm always thankful for the opportunity to pursue my dreams.
Also, if there's a man or woman who understands and supports your goals, you got yourself an irreplaceable gem! Most people only stick around when there's something in it for them and that's unfortunate. People always ask, what's in it for me? But really, they should be asking, how can I be there/support this person? Don't let loneliness make you stick around those who only want to leech off you. You deserve someone genuine, understanding, and supportive!

QUALITY over quantity

Don't be scared to let people go. If they give you bad energy, don't support or help you grow and prosper, and interfere with your path/decisions in life... Stop yourself from absorbing all of that✋. Remember, 👉YOU👈 are in control of who and what stays and influences you. Rather than focusing on quantity, make friends with those who are of QUALITY and continue to emit positive frequencies😉. What you reflect onto others is what you get back.

I think one of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realising half way through how much you enjoy them and their existence x

I admit my level of weirdness is above the national average, but I'm comfortable with that.
Be you.
Do you💋

Not everyone has the same heart.

One of my flaw is thinking everyone has the same heart as I do. I used to get sh*t hurt when someone used, lied, or hurt me, which is how any normal person would feel.
But now, I have reached a point in my life where I look past any personal feelings from my doings for others. I do what I do for others because my heart tells me to and I wouldn't have it any other way. For the people I care about in my life I go above and beyond without any expectations, which is also why I keep my circle small. I learned people will use, lie, cheat, and hurt you, but it's ultimately up to you who you keep in your life. If you have good people in your life, value and be good to them🌹

"In life, you will realise there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones that bring out the best in you. They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it's worth it."😇

There's a story of a little frog stuck in a well. He thinks that a few clouds and a small patch of blue sky is all there is to this world. Until one day a little bird flies past his well and lands on the edge of it. "Come out you silly little  frog! Come out and see the awesome big world!"
Question is: am I the bird or the frog?

The only time I look back is to see how far I've come🍂

People always wonder how and why I'm always happy

I believe in positive energy and what you reflect is what you're going to get back. Sure, I have horrible days, but I don't let that ruin my whole day because each day is precious. Every day is a gift, another opportunity, another passing moment to LIVE and make a difference.
✔️I stopped letting things/people get to me.
✔️I learned to value and appreciate myself.
✔️I learned to be grateful for everything and everyone, even bad experiences.
✔️I learned there are worst things in life.
✔️I learned being happy was a choice. MY choice.
Started this year being genuinely happy has attracted many good people into my life and I'm eternally thankful for everyone so far. I hope you find the courage to LIVE and make every day worthwhile because everyone deserve to be happy. I hope you find happiness within and reflect all that you are!

My tip of the day for all of you :)

The beauty in not giving any cents about what anyone thinks, is doing what makes YOU happy.
I personally don't give a poo about what anyone thinks or says.
I do what makes ME happy. I learned that I'm responsible for my own happiness, which is why I don't let anyone's opinions and judgements to crawl up and affect me.
My happiness shines from within and nothing can dim the light from within.
Your happiness starts with YOU!💫✨

When you feel like giving up:

The key to succeed is: persistence, consistency and hard work.

Don't give up when things get hard, when things get confusing and when it make you hopeless. Don't lose sight of what is most important to you. Keep focus and continue to chase after your dreams and/or goals in life!

Life is messy and unpredictable.

Change is inevitable and happens in constant motion throughout our lives. Some good and some bad. But ultimately, we are in control of creating a life that we dream to have one day.

People, goals, desires and circumstances change, but where we choose to be in our later years is pre-determined by what we do and/or build NOW.

So no matter how difficult and cloudy things get, don't give up and keep going! Life doesn't stop for anybody. Reality is crap happens and that's life. Don't dwell on every bad situation because overthinking doesn't change anything. I can't emphasise that anymore.

Think of it as a stepping stone that leads you closer to your goals, let it go and keep going! x

I love knowing and planning. However, I'm not fixed and am flexible to changes. Things change and we know that plans don't always go as planned right? It's important to understand that everything that happens good and bad is all part of the process in life. There are things that are out of your control and change is inevitable. But how and what you do next is utterly up to you. You can be sour puss and complain OR work harder towards your goal and become better in all aspects of life.

Your life👉Your choices👉Your life story.

Create your own destiny. 

A bad situation can turn into a good story. It's how you look and act on every twist, bends, and turns in life.

Life is short, precious and tastefully wonderful once you understand that life isn't perfect and to learn to appreciate the good and the bad in life✌️️

You're the author to your own story.✍

You're the driver behind the wheel to your life/destination.
Don't let people tell you how to live your life. As long as it doesn't involve hurting others or being a bad person, do what makes YOU happy. By this, I'm not saying be dumb and reckless... I'm saying don't let others tell you who you need to be and how you should live your life.
Work hard and live the way YOU envisioned your life!
Do what you want, say what you feel, make opportunities, be spontaneous and last but not least... stay true to yourself.
After all, you only get one life.☝ 

You are not truly free until you stop needing validation from others. Don't be a prisoner of those that don't matter. What others think shouldn't matter. People will belittle and judge no matter what you do, so free yourself and you do you💕

A flaw or a problem?

Is being too caring or going above and beyond for someone... a flaw or a problem?

I personally consider this to be my strength. I say it's my strength because eventhough I may care or go above and beyond for someone, I do it because I'm strong enough to be okay with caring and doing what I can for someone without having any expectations. However, I only do this for people who value, love and appreciate me.
I do what I do because my heart allows me to and my heart wouldn't have it any other way. I wouldn't take back what I did for that person because it could've made a difference and/or meant the world for them even if it was just for that moment.
I'm not saying to care or go above and beyond for those that DON'T deserve such actions. But if there's someone in your life that values, loves and appreciates you... don't be scared to open your amazing heart to care a whole buttload or go above and beyond💞

PS. This year is all about positive vibes, where I'll be writing positive and hopefully inspirational posts for you all to read! Hence all my posts this year will be tagged under "positive vibes" :)

Starting 2017 with a smile :)

It's 3rd day of this year and I hope all of you have started your new year with a strong mind and kind heart. Practicing New Years resolution shouldn't be a yearly thing, it should be a daily thing.
✅If you have a goal/dream, pursue it.
✅If you're scared to try something, start now.
✅If you mess up, go back and fix it.
✅If you like someone, have the courage to tell them.
✅If someone/something is giving you bad energy, drop them like flies.
✅If you want to_________, go do it!
✅Don't keep wishing/hoping. MAKE THAT SHIT HAPPEN👊

Stay positive, dedicated, and patient. Hard work and kind heart will eventually pay off.
Anyways, I'm grateful for everyone in my life and wish nothing, but the best for everyone! x

It’s officially 2017.

We made it. whether you knew you were going to make it or if you didn’t think you were going to be able to hang on this long, you made it. 
We survived. We survived. And sure the start of the new year might not mean anything when you’ve got a lot going on, but here’s to hoping that soon, our lives won’t just be about surviving or making it through, here’s to hoping our lives will be about living them to the fullest and that our lives are going to be full of happiness. So here’s to 2017 - here’s to you!

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My main goals for 2017 onward is to not be so hard on myself and to STRESS LESS; whether it be about the way I look, work, money, friendships etc. I really want to be more positive about every aspect of my life.
I'm super excited to see what 2017 has to offer and I look forward to being motivated to achieve great things. 🌸💕