Actually.
It is.
I fail to understand those who say it isn’t. I really believe it is.
If you believe it isn’t… I’d conclude you’re (a) very lucky or (b) finding yourself in monotonous sexual encounters, producing the same result. Which is cool. Very cool.
It’s not so much people’s decision to sleep around that baffles me. (I've been in enough environments to not flinch every time I find out someone sleeps around) It’s more the claim that sex is just a regular “pass time”.
I don’t criticise this mentality, I am just genuinely intrigued. Coming from a kind place in my heart. I want to learn.
As we get older, (not just because a few years have been added onto our age) we (should) start seeing sex in a different light.
You may find yourself thinking twice, three times, four times before engaging in it. You may start to feel different emotions during sex. You may begin to have different thoughts afterwards. You may begin to look at sexual partners differently. Begin to feel a tiny little butterfly in your stomach if you bump into them in town. You may begin to tweak your sex stories to your friends. Or reduce the number of "friends" you DO tell. What once, in your early teens, was easy to dismiss, becomes a thought that lingers around for longer.
Grow up a little bit? Evolve? Does sex now really still feel how it did when you first did it?
Life will test you when, while being sexually active, you finally fall so deeply in love with someone who wishes to stay celibate.
Then you start weighing the pros and cons of each.
Trying to establish whether your love or your sex life deserves to suffer.
Even more stressful when your desire for each is so great.
PS. I know this is a topic I rarely touch/rant on but this is a random ramble, I guess. Writing as I think so nothing is lost..
It is.
I fail to understand those who say it isn’t. I really believe it is.
If you believe it isn’t… I’d conclude you’re (a) very lucky or (b) finding yourself in monotonous sexual encounters, producing the same result. Which is cool. Very cool.
It’s not so much people’s decision to sleep around that baffles me. (I've been in enough environments to not flinch every time I find out someone sleeps around) It’s more the claim that sex is just a regular “pass time”.
I don’t criticise this mentality, I am just genuinely intrigued. Coming from a kind place in my heart. I want to learn.
As we get older, (not just because a few years have been added onto our age) we (should) start seeing sex in a different light.
You may find yourself thinking twice, three times, four times before engaging in it. You may start to feel different emotions during sex. You may begin to have different thoughts afterwards. You may begin to look at sexual partners differently. Begin to feel a tiny little butterfly in your stomach if you bump into them in town. You may begin to tweak your sex stories to your friends. Or reduce the number of "friends" you DO tell. What once, in your early teens, was easy to dismiss, becomes a thought that lingers around for longer.
Grow up a little bit? Evolve? Does sex now really still feel how it did when you first did it?
Life will test you when, while being sexually active, you finally fall so deeply in love with someone who wishes to stay celibate.
Then you start weighing the pros and cons of each.
Trying to establish whether your love or your sex life deserves to suffer.
Even more stressful when your desire for each is so great.
PS. I know this is a topic I rarely touch/rant on but this is a random ramble, I guess. Writing as I think so nothing is lost..
