Sunday 10 November 2013

OhMyGoodnessGraciousMe.

This. Is. Truly. Driving. Me. Crazy.
I just got told by some awesome people that what I commented didn't showed up in their news feed, BUT it's showing on mine. what the feck. Think the last post is REALLY overflowed hence it decided to crash on me -.- WHYYYYY. THE. TROLL. NOW. IHATECHU.

I'll do them manually here since I actually did put in effort to reply you all so ya!

So the person who commented, "HOW THE FUCK DO YOU GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE." and onwards, I have been told that the comments are not there?! So ya, read on if your one of those :P



















NUMBER ONE

You can’t. If someone has friendzoned you, that means they have not thought and will never want you more than just a “friend.” it hurts, but it’s the reality. I guess you could confess to them, but honestly, if they haven’t given any hints that they might be interested in you then it’s a no go.

NUMBER TWO

Let it pass. I mean, she will be annoyed at you for even logging onto her Facebook without permission in the first place so it’s best that you just let it go so she doesn’t have to yell at you. If she didn’t flirt back, then that’s all that matters. Just trust her.

NUMBER THREE

Don’t ever say that. If you’re born into this world - it doesn’t mean you’re useless or you’re just here because there has been a mistake or whatnot. It means that you’re given the chance to live your life. To be positive and enjoy what life gives you. I know that life can be complicated sometimes, but that is definitely not a reason to end it. You’ve got so much to live for. And I assure you that if you’re in a rough state today, you will eventually get past your situation and be happy. What’s the purpose of living? I think it’s to enjoy what God/Earth has given you. To explore, to give love, to receive love. How about eventually settling down and having your own kid? Don’t you want that? Don’t you want to explore around the world to experience different cultures/lives? Don’t you want to get out there and achieve something? I’m sure you do.

NUMBER FOUR

Tell your best friend how you feel about this. And if she continues to look past it well then, that’s for you to decide. Do you think she’s a good friend? Think about it. Confront to her. Don’t worry about the bestfriend’s friends because hey, they’re not your friends therefore they shouldn’t be a concern to you.















NUMBER FIVE

Facebook: annoying, people say the most stupidest things/take photos of the most stupidest and sluttiest poses. But nevertheless, I still go on Facebook to contact with my friends. Though if I didn’t have to, I wouldn’t have Facebook at all. It’s an overrated site.

Tumblr: it’s becoming like Facebook. Overrated. Though I like tumblr more than Facebook.

NUMBER SIX

no worries :)

NUMBER SEVEN

Well I would. But then again, if that happened to me, I would immediately think that my “guy friend” is crushing on me. And that all my friends will think the same - therefore result in having a really awkward friendship from then onwards. But nevertheless, the thought of getting flowers for a girl - whether it’s just a friend or something more, it’s pretty damn cute. Just be cautious of what message you might be implying if you do so.

NUMBER EIGHT

Not at all :) I think you have mysophobia which is completely normal. I mean, you’re better off being super clean than dirty right?! Don’t take it negatively :)















NUMBER NINE

I think you should really avoid thinking about death. I know how it feels to be fearful of death. I mean, personally I’m not scared of my own death but I am absolutely terrified of my parents. And other loved ones. Just the thought of losing them one day makes me tremble. Reason why I avoid things like that and think of things positively. Instead of worrying about death and the death of your loved ones, why don’t you just acknowledge the great things about life instead? Treasure every moment with your parents, siblings etc. Be grateful that you have them in your life. Be grateful of your life. Spend every minute it with pure joy and happiness. Like people say, live life to the fullest. You only get one chance of experiencing it. Don’t think about death. I mean, let’s be real here, that day has to come eventually. But that doesn’t mean there’s a need to think about it in the present. Love your life. Live your life.

NUMBER 10

Everybody’s got their bad days/weeks. Just try to make the most of things by staying a little more positive. With studies, get back to it. I’m sure if you have the motivation to do well, your scores and concentration educationally will rise in no time. As for friends/crush/social life, just fix things up if you’re having friends issues and/or ask to hang out whenever you’re free to reconnect. As for life in general, again, not every aspect of everything you deal with in life is going to be perfect. It’s impossible to not deal with shitty days and whatnot :) you just need to stay positive and somehow look at it on the bright side.

NUMBER 11

what, that is absolutely crazy. I assure you that your mum loves you so much - whether she chooses it or not. Don’t say that she doesn’t. But even if she “does,” that’s not a reason to commit suicide or run away. I know it’s hard to deal with things at home, I mean, everybody has to deal with it, but I guarantee you that things will get better. Rely on your family and friends to support you, whether it’s your father or your best friend etc. There is someone out there who cares. There is someone out there who wants to listen to your worries and troubles. And there are definitely so people out there, who love, care and never ever want you to end your life or run away. Don’t think harshly. Everything will get better.

NUMBER 12

There will be times where you feel like nothing is going your way. Like everything is turning out so bad that you just want to run away from it and never ever have to deal with it. But there are times that you can’t. And honestly, there are and will be times where running away are not an option. You need to face the music. You need to face the reality. Not everything can go your way. Sometimes, that’s just the way life rolls. You either face it and simply accept it as it is, or simply cry it all out and move on.















OOPZ. JUST REALISED. I ACCIDENTALLY DIDN'T CROPPED OUT 13.
NUMBER 12 = NUMBER 13 :P

NUMBER 14

you expand the first two bracket, and then expand using your answer with the third brackets… if that made sense D: try khanacademy – it’s real good, they explain like everything lol in video formats!

NUMBER 15

inbox me through fb or tumblr :) but I don’t usually add randoms, so we’ll see haha XD

NUMBER 16


you don’t let her use you again. She left you and then came back when she needed you. Do you think that’s a good friend? Of course not. She was able to balance her relationships and friendships but instead, she decided to just ditch you for her boyfriend. And so why do you think that you would even think twice about letting her back into your life when you know exactly that she’s only coming back for your help? What makes you think that she’s not going to end up running away again after she’s done with you? Trust me, you deserve a better friend. A better friend would never leave and then come back when she needs you.


THAT'S IT! :D

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

PEOPLE.

MY EMAIL HAS TRULY FLOODED BY YOUSE COMMENTS :P

Well ya, eventhough I said I will retire myself from blogging but this will be the last post before I go off! There's already a LOT of comments/questions on my previous post (8th Nov) XD So ya, please stick with asking questions over there, it'll be so much easy to handle and answer them.


CLICK ME TO ASK QUESTION/S


AND also seriously, those seedy anons? Don't youse have better things to do??

Also. Wow. seriously. Before I checked, there's around 80 or so comments, nek minek, is like 130 something O.O This has gone viral, actually more viral than I originally thought it would be. It's gonna be a while until I answer all of them. Having a feeling more questions will be coming in... so ya, please be patient! :P

Moreover.... 

And also for those haters that messaged me privately, for examples, "I don't think you're very good at advice/gtfo/delete your blog/go die" and all that shitzza. I never said I was good at it. If anything, I don’t even think I should even call this “advice.” It’s just my opinion :) People come to ask for my OPINION. I don’t expect people to go “OMG, VELENE IS SO RIGHT. I'm so going to listen to her.” I’m just giving them my perspective of what i would do in their situation or/and simply just my intake of what I think when I read their problems. 

And I will answer all the questions tonight, so fire all if you have any, as I will start my retirement of blogging and answering questions, starting tomorrow. And I will get back answering questions when exams are done :)

xPeacex

Love,
Velene xoxo

It’s amazing how much emotion a song can deliver....

Amazing yet scary.