Monday 2 December 2013

Suicide.

I have so many messages/asks/emails about suicide/ending your life because of so and so etc.... and I felt like writing this post to dedicate for all you out there....

I’m sure many of us has had the thought of committing suicide. I for one, will admit it’s one of those things that crosses my mind daily. If you’re one of those people who has ever had suicidal thoughts, I just want you to know I’m here for you, I understand you, and most of all, you’re not alone. Everyone has that breaking point in their life and nowadays, it’s extremely hard to find true happiness with the many problems and stress life has thrown at us which blocks our way when we try to search for the key to happiness. It doesn't matter who you are, what race you are or what you’re categorised as, I’m sure you all had one of those days where you feel like nothing but complete emptiness, and you feel as if you’re invaluable and worthless. It’s because we’re human, we were given such complex emotions to differs us from the many other living things on earth. With that said, it’s only normal that even the strongest people have weaknesses. I know how suicide may seem like the perfect answer to some of you, because with death, comes no stress, no problems, and no worries. But I promise you it will the source of problems to many others who are involved in your life, such as your parents, your family, and your friends. You think no one will care, right? That’s where you’re wrong. Your loved ones will be the first to blame themselves when you’re gone, they’ll blame themselves for things that weren't their fault to begin with. I know that times get rough and a lot of bullshit is tearing you apart, but please don’t ever think of ending your life. Instead, think of ways to change your life. I want you to take a moment to reminisce about the good times you've had, think about all the people who are worth living for, and think about how you prove those people who has ever doubted you wrong. I want you to smile like you've never smiled before. I want you to go out and have fun, I want you to live and take risks like the sun won’t raise again tomorrow. I want you to understand you only have one chance at life, and life is fragile, there’s no turning back once you decide to leave the surface of this world. So please, never make permanent decisions when you’re in the extremes of your emotions. Always think twice about your actions and the consequences that comes with your actions. You are loved, and I promise you, things will only get better. Everything in life is temporary, if things are good, enjoy it because it can’t only last forever, and if things are bad, don’t worry because that can’t last forever either. Suicide shouldn't be the solution to your problems. With suicide, you’re only running away from your problems.