I once was with a guy that told me he didn't like girls that parties and drinks, and he liked me because I was innocent and cute. 7 months later we stopped seeing each other. A week later he dated a girl that parties and drinks. She was the complete opposite of me. I often wonder if he lied about his ideal type the entire time we're together. I was never what he wanted. They broke up after 2 weeks. He came to see me and wanted to start over. I didn't take him back. I knew we were so different. They say opposites attract, but I say opposites also don't last. Similar people also don't last. What will work in the end is only IF you want it to work. My thinking is a lot more mature than how I am being perceived for whatever reason. I honestly think guys don't really see that.. because they don't know the me inside. They see cute and that's all they know.