Stop waiting for "the right time", there is no such thing.

I’m guilty of this myself. 

In your life, you’re going to be in situations where you want to so badly do something but it seems like it isn’t the right time. Often times, you’re lying to yourself because the truth is, you’re just scared

The truth is, I’ve lost the people and things I loved the most because I was afraid of the moment and using timing was the perfect excuse. But what I’ve learned is, that moment never finds you again.

So stop waiting for the right time and just do it. It’s better to know the outcome than to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been.

You’ll be fine, I promise 🤍

It is okay to be sad after making the right decision.

 The right decision doesn’t mean the easy decision. Honestly, most times we’re so accustomed to our regular routines and being comfortable that it’s hard to say goodbye, it’s hard to put yourself first and it’s hard to leave when the only thing you want to do is stay.

The right decision is never easy. That’s WHY it’s the right decision. 

It’s okay to be sad, it’s going to be hard, but your future self will thank you. I promise 🤍

it is time to cut off people who leave you feeling worse about yourself.

A genuine person in your life should not be jealous of you. If they are, there are aspects of their own life that cause them to be this way. Unless they start to take accountability for it and fix those shortcomings; they don’t deserve to be in your life. Cut them off.

It still hurts.

Don’t be hard on yourself for still being hurt. 

Healing is a process that takes a lot of time and is filled with many ups and downs.

Stop comparing your lows to their highs. Social media is not real.

 Nobody’s life is perfect; but a lot of people are guilty of making their life SEEM perfect.

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Find patience in your darkest moments.

 This is honestly one of the hardest things to do but you need to know things are happening this way right now for a reason and continue to hold on to hope and be patient because that’s how you find the light again.

This is the sign you have been asking for.

 In our most lost, confusing and challenging moments we always ask for a sign. 

Maybe this is yours. 

Maybe this is the sign you need to leave, this is the sign you need to know they will come back, this is the sign you need to know everything will be okay. Whatever it is, maybe this is the sign you’ve been asking for.

Do not forge it. Instead, remember it all and overcome it.

If you do not overcome it, you will never be able to grow from it.

Often times, trauma or heartache consumes our thoughts to a point where we wish we could just forget it all and move on. 

But one of the most important things I’ve learned is if you try to forget it, you’ll never be able to learn or grow from it. So instead “remember it all and overcome it”. #itsokaynottobeokay

Remember, everything you want is on the other side of fear. It is okay to take a break when life gets overwhelming but don't let fear hold you back from what you want.

Saying NO is therapeutic.

 Stop feeling guilty for telling someone "no".

It is okay if things are not perfect right now! Keep going!