One day, it just clicks.

You realise what’s important and what isn’t.
You learn to care less about what other people think of you and more about what you think of yourself.
You realise how far you have come and you remember when you thought things were such a mess that you would never recover.
And you smile.
You smile because you are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become.

2017 is a selfish year.

My time will be invested on me. On improving myself. I want to become a better person physically and mentally.

A month later.

Well well well can't believe it has been a month since I've visited this old site of mine.
Life has been super busy - with work, blogging, youtube, friends and family of course, that I can't fault anything at this stage in my life at all! I'm super happy and glad with the opportunities I've received at work, I'm overjoyed that my effort in beauty blogging is seeping day by day and I'm continuously working hard for it, which I can see where that hard work is slowly ripping.

PS. I missed writing. Not just with beauty blogging, but just carefree thinking. I really do. And that's my March challenge - I will post here as often as I can when my mind speaks out.

And here's something to think about tonight :)

I think as you grow older you look for very different things in people. 

Honesty. Loyalty. Integrity. 

But most of all, you look for someone who will stand right by your side when the walls start crumbling and the fires rage within. 

They are right there, and in that moment, you know they’ve got you.

First of February.

Wow. Just like that, first month of 2017 is gone. Never to return.

Anyways, here's today inspiration.

When you love yourself, you learn to stop investing your time and energy on those who don't matter. If there's one thing you never get back, it's time. Dedicate your time and energy on those who matter. Be smart and strong enough to walk away.
Let go, move on, and realise you deserve better. And last but not least, be the type of person you want to attract and be around. (Your vibe attracts your tribe!)

Is it worth the argument?

I have a mind of my own and am an opinionated stubborn sass. I used to argue even when I knew I was wrong. Over the years, I learned it's important what you choose to stand up for and that arguing is not always the right nor is it an approachable way to address a certain issue. I also learned to value people who are in my life more than my ego, so I agree to disagree because everyone is different in the way they see and think.
However, standing up for what's right, what is yours, and what you want is necessary.
Choose what is worth standing up for. You don't need to agree with everything/everyone, but understand that you can agree to disagree without starting a petty argument.
Everyone has their own opinions and thoughts and that's what makes everyone uniquely different.

Loyalty isn't grey. It's black and white. You're either loyal completely, or not loyal at all. And people have to understand this. You can't be loyal only when it serves you.

Kindness.

It doesn't cost a damn thing.

I believe in being kind to everyone, even a-holes because you never know what they're going through. Maybe they just need a little sunshine after having a bad day and/or week. It literally doesn't cost a thing to be nice. It could be as simple as giving them a nice compliment, giving them a hand with groceries, or even opening the door. People underestimate the power of how a small act of kindness has an impact on others. It may be a small act to you, but that small act of kindness can turn someone's day/week around. So be a little ray of sunshine to everyone you meet because kindness goes a long way☀️💜

Where do I see myself in 10 years? What's in it for me?

In 10 yrs I see myself financially stable with my own business or with whatever I end up doing, so I can start doing charity work. Pharmacy field is awesome, but it can be physically and mentally draining. I went into it knowing I couldn't do it forever, and that's okay because nothing in life remains the same.
Currently, I'm a lifestyle beauty blogger and influencer while working full time in a pharmacy field because I believe it's never too late to start pursuing your dreams. Sure, its a lonely path, but I know it will be worth it in the end and I'm always thankful for the opportunity to pursue my dreams.
Also, if there's a man or woman who understands and supports your goals, you got yourself an irreplaceable gem! Most people only stick around when there's something in it for them and that's unfortunate. People always ask, what's in it for me? But really, they should be asking, how can I be there/support this person? Don't let loneliness make you stick around those who only want to leech off you. You deserve someone genuine, understanding, and supportive!

QUALITY over quantity

Don't be scared to let people go. If they give you bad energy, don't support or help you grow and prosper, and interfere with your path/decisions in life... Stop yourself from absorbing all of that✋. Remember, 👉YOU👈 are in control of who and what stays and influences you. Rather than focusing on quantity, make friends with those who are of QUALITY and continue to emit positive frequencies😉. What you reflect onto others is what you get back.