Today I was asked if I had a boyfriend, and then asked if I wanted one. I found myself answering: "no, and not really".
I don’t know anyone who I want to have that kind of relationship with right now. And I am pretty happy being single. Even… calm and at peace.
I’d really just like some good friends right now; to hang out, laugh, and share life with as it comes. I may meet a man who changes that somewhere down the road, but I don’t know. I feel content without having a boyfriend with no feeling of needing one. It’s not something you “get”. It’s someone you keep going with after you realize who they are and how they change your life being in it. You kinda just keep making the decision to walk on together and grow. I like that a lot more than being out to find something because you feel it is missing. It’s less what it fills in your life and more what he adds, in a way.

One of the most important things I’ve learnt from my experience in life is that I shouldn’t limit myself from doing stuff I want to do just because I’ll be alone in doing it. Whether it be a lifestyle change, doing something or going somewhere it's good to know that I’ll be fine solo instead of needing someone to be there too.

I think the weirdest thing is having left over information about someone. Like I still know someone’s favourite girl's name. Or their favorite season. Or someone’s address. I remember someone’s favourite icecream flavors. And someone’s favourite childhood book. And the mental disorder their cousin has. I remember the ages and birthdays of their siblings. I remember the song they said they’d sing to their spouse. Where do I put this down? Where do I learn to forget?

Currently at a critical point in my life where I’ve got too many important things on my plate for me to worry and stress out over petty problems. I keep telling myself that I do not need to be wasting so much of my time and energy on stuff that won’t even matter in a year or two. It’s time I prioritise better and divert my attention to what actually matters.

I really hate my tendency of brushing my problems away and then trying to forget that anything ever happened. It’s all good at first because I’ll actually forget why I was ever upset and I’ll go back to being normal, but then eventually the problem somehow always resurfaces and I find myself even more upset than I was to begin with. This just causes me to be sad and mad about the same things over and over and over again because my problems always have an open end, and I don’t know why the hell I continue to put myself through this and put all this unwanted stress on me. I know everything could be solved for the most part if I just learned to deal with it all head on, but god I hate confrontations. I just don’t wanna deal with it.

I really wish I could just erase all the problems in my life away and never have to remember nor think about them again, but ugh that’s life for ya I guess -.-

I forgot how great it was to get lost in music. I used to depend on music to get me through hard times, but it’s been awhile since I’ve felt the need for that.

Things have been pretty rough lately, but now that I’m blasting music through my headphones again, I feel like I can get through anything and that everything will be a-okay.

I love it.

Being the introvert that I am, most of the time I don’t care about feeling lonely, but then there are some times when the loneliness actually gets to me.

Different types of drunks

1. Party Drunk:

• will talk to anyone and everyone
• only does shots
• has to literally be dragged home at the end of the night because they refuse to acknowledge that the party has ended and they are the only persion still there

2. Blissful Drunk

• does nothing but laugh
• just happy to be included
• too good for this world
• loves you so much eventhough they just met you few minutes ago

3. Emotional Drunk

• not great at parties
• it's either crying tears of sorrow because there's no chips left or crying tears of gratitude because someone showed them where the bathroom is
• brings out everyone's inner mother

4. Parent Drunk

• keep everyone's shit together
• everyone thinks they're sober but they have actually had 5 shots in a hour
• knows when you need to go home and will make sure you get there
• holds back your hair when you are vomiting at 3 am

5. Slutty Drunk

• never gets cold
• makeup never smudges
• never has to buy their own drinks
• you think they are sloppy and have no idea what they are doing but every move is calculated and intentional

6. Sloppy Drunk

• wasted by 9pm
• needs to be taken home early
• will drink anything you give them as long as there is alcohol in it
• a MESS
• never learns from their mistakes

You think that you’re never going to get over your last heartbreak and that the tears will never cease, but then.. slowly but surely, when you least expect it.. comes a day when you find somebody who makes you feel happy again - and not that pretend type of happy that turns into sadness when nobody’s around - but truly and genuinely happy. Someone who makes you question why you were ever sad in the first place. All of a sudden, you find yourself looking forward to the future rather than crying over the past, and you’re finally able to sleep well at night again.

So for anyone currently battling depression and heartbreak, chin up and don’t lose hope because I promise that there’s so much more in store for you :‘3