Boundaries.

If you are afraid to set a boundary with someone because of how they will negatively react. Take it as proof that the boundary is necessary.

Boundaries are important to protect your inner peace from those who try to take it away from you. Trust your gut instinct and their reaction will prove enough to you about your decision 🤍

PS. If you’re feeling a bit lost or stuck right now just know that you’re going to make it out of this place and give yourself more credit for how far you’ve already come.

It is important..

 .. to heal your inner-self in order to build healthy relationships with others.

You truly do owe it to yourself to address what needs healing and it might be hard to admit a few things but the best part is you’re admitting it to yourself and by doing so you can work towards healing yourself, too🤍

PS. The reason I think this is important is because you don’t want to live life without inner peace, because you’ll never be happy and you’ll always blame others for it. The hard truth is that sometimes the problem starts from within but the amazing result is that realising this then work on becoming a better you, benefits YOU the most.

One day..

One day you wake up tired of feeling hurt.

One day you decide you won't stay in the place they left you.

One day you choose to take a step forward.

One day happiness doesn't seem so far away.

One day you decide today is that day.

You’ve been through a lot and I know it’s not easy to move on from it all in one day, but you definitely have one day where it hurts less, where you love yourself a little more, where happiness is a day closer one day where you realise you’ve made so much progress. You didn’t deserve any of the hurt you’ve been through but you do deserve to be happy. I hope you choose happiness today. 🤍

PS. I hope you stay hydrated today and find a reason to smile.

When it rains it pours but rain is not evermore.

It’s important to know that even the heaviest storms come to an end and the sun shines again. you may feel like nothing is going your way right now but it won’t stay this way forever. 

So in case you need this reminder, it’s here for you ok good night/good morning🤍

PS. Don’t be so hard on yourself for not getting everything you needed to get done. Every day is a new day to start over. Also, it’s okay to take a break and a few days will not effect your end goal. 🤍 Take care of yourself .

Show up for yourself the same way you show up for others.

Are you doing so? If not, it’s important you start or else you’re not going to have anything left to give yourself and it’ll leave you feeling drained, unhappy, unmotivated, hurt and tired. Maybe if you’re already feeling this way, it may be time to ask yourself if you’re truly there for yourself the way you should be. 🤍 

PS. Giving is important but that includes giving to yourself as well.

The chapter may be done but your story isn't over yet.

Read it till the very end, you never know what is waiting to be found.

I think I really needed this today so maybe you do too. If you’re feeling a bit hopeless at the moment or find yourself reminiscing about a time, a person, a moment; I want you to know that although that chapter may have ended, you have so much more to live for and I promise you as time goes on, and you grow and truly love yourself, it’ll get better. It really will.

PS. I read somewhere that when you take a picture of a sunset and it doesn’t look as breathtaking as the actual sunset, you don’t blame the sunset for not being breathtaking, you blame the picture. The same applies for you, don’t blame yourself, blame the picture didn’t turn out the way you anticipated. Remember your beauty is far too great to be captured and emulated on film.🤍

Sometimes you have to make decisions that not everyone will understand and that is okay.

To live your happiest life you’re going to have to make decisions that not everyone will agree with or understand and it’s okay because it’s YOUR life, not theirs.

I know this is easier said than done but this is also a reminder that if you’re in this situation, it’s okay and keep going. You got this! 🤍

Your pain is valid.

I think this stems from a lot of things but most importantly, it stems from feeling like just because they have it worse doesn’t mean you have it bad. 

You are hurting too and that’s okay. Your feelings and pain is valid too.

PS. Thank you for staying and reading this. I’m sending my best wishes your way and I hope you know how grateful I am for YOU, yes you!

Also side note: I feel like I’ve been all over the place lately but maybe it’s just apart of my journey! Still trying my best.

There is beauty in knowing the things happening in your present are currently orchestrating your unknown future.

You are exactly where you need to be 🤍

I know this is different from my usual writings but it felt fitting because you may be feeling like nothing is happening or maybe you’re feeling stuck but there’s beauty in the unknown because how much do we really see? You need to be here to get there and you never know what’s coming your way.

So be patient, keep hope, trust the process and be optimistic about your future 🤍