If you relate to this it’s because you’re a kind, empathetic and caring person.
You always put people before yourself and want them to be happy even if it’s at the expense of your own happiness.
I know it’s hard but you need start being kind, empathetic and caring to your own self.
This is the only life you have, why would you waste it being miserable?
Stop waiting to do something because you’re scared the outcome won’t be what you desire.
Sometimes wanting perfection is exactly what holds you back from unlocking your potential.
Things in life are imperfectly, perfect.
Do what you’re meant to do without the fear of failing and it will change your life.
Your future self will thank you for it.
The person you are one year from now will either thank you or resent you for the choices you make now.
Choose wisely.
Stop holding back because you’re afraid of the outcome.
Just start. What’s the worst thing that can happen?
Another reminder for me as I've decided to stop fear controlling me and charging forward for a new pathway soon.
Sometimes, the one you love the most, is the one who left your life for reasons you can’t understand or don’t want to understand.
It’s okay to still wonder how they are even if they hurt you. It’s okay to want the best for them. It’s okay to sometimes wish you still had access to them enough to ask if they’re okay.
Other times, this is why you hold on to them even though you know it’s time to let go.
Will they be okay without me?
Will I be okay without them?
Are two questions you find yourself asking because you don’t want to lose access to this person when it’s all said and done.
But remember, it’s okay to still love them and put yourself first.
Often times, when you love someone; you will always care about them and want to make sure they’re okay. And that’s okay.
Remind yourself it’s okay to let go, and it’s okay to still wonder how they are.
Just remember to ask yourself the same question, too. How are you?
I’m guilty of this myself.
In your life, you’re going to be in situations where you want to so badly do something but it seems like it isn’t the right time. Often times, you’re lying to yourself because the truth is, you’re just scared
The truth is, I’ve lost the people and things I loved the most because I was afraid of the moment and using timing was the perfect excuse. But what I’ve learned is, that moment never finds you again.
So stop waiting for the right time and just do it. It’s better to know the outcome than to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been.
You’ll be fine, I promise 🤍
The right decision doesn’t mean the easy decision. Honestly, most times we’re so accustomed to our regular routines and being comfortable that it’s hard to say goodbye, it’s hard to put yourself first and it’s hard to leave when the only thing you want to do is stay.
The right decision is never easy. That’s WHY it’s the right decision.
It’s okay to be sad, it’s going to be hard, but your future self will thank you. I promise 🤍
A genuine person in your life should not be jealous of you. If they are, there are aspects of their own life that cause them to be this way. Unless they start to take accountability for it and fix those shortcomings; they don’t deserve to be in your life. Cut them off.
Don’t be hard on yourself for still being hurt.
Healing is a process that takes a lot of time and is filled with many ups and downs.
