To live your happiest life you’re going to have to make decisions that not everyone will agree with or understand and it’s okay because it’s YOUR life, not theirs.
I know this is easier said than done but this is also a reminder that if you’re in this situation, it’s okay and keep going. You got this! 🤍
I think this stems from a lot of things but most importantly, it stems from feeling like just because they have it worse doesn’t mean you have it bad.
You are hurting too and that’s okay. Your feelings and pain is valid too.
PS. Thank you for staying and reading this. I’m sending my best wishes your way and I hope you know how grateful I am for YOU, yes you!
Also side note: I feel like I’ve been all over the place lately but maybe it’s just apart of my journey! Still trying my best.
You are exactly where you need to be 🤍
I know this is different from my usual writings but it felt fitting because you may be feeling like nothing is happening or maybe you’re feeling stuck but there’s beauty in the unknown because how much do we really see? You need to be here to get there and you never know what’s coming your way.
So be patient, keep hope, trust the process and be optimistic about your future 🤍
Life is about growing and new experiences, please know that just because someone was your all at one point doesn’t mean you owe it to them to hold on now. This can be about an acquaintance, friendship, relationship or even family members. You both needed each other at the time but the extravagant thing about time is that it doesn’t stop. So even though you want to hold on to the moment, you simply have to keep moving forward. You aren’t who you were then and it’s okay to face the reality of letting go. It’s okay to outgrow people you never though you would. It’s not a bad thing, maybe it’s exactly what you need.
PS. Let go so you have room to hold what’s next. I myself lost 3 "friends" last year during COVID for some reason I myself haven't got a clear reason for, our arguments broke over the internet, and without any explanations whatsoever, I immediately got unfriended & blocked on all social media platforms. What I'm grateful aftermath was that the universe has bless me back with another group of friends which I am very blessed for to surround myself with, all filled with just positive energy and vibes, all supporting each other. I am just really grateful that I let go of those 3 people and opened my arms wide to receive what has came.
I know their opinions are loud and I know it’s easy to push aside your happiness but at the end of the day their opinions are only empty opinions unless you let them affect your happiness.
Put your happiness first because you deserve to be happy. You really do and I know it takes a lot to be happy but start with knowing you deserve it and your happiness is worth more than the opinions of others who don’t have your best interest at heart.
PS. I hope you find the happiness you’re looking for. Take care 🤍
You deserve to heal yourself from the wounds they left. But it’s okay to understand that it takes time and that’s okay! If you keep picking at the wound it’ll never heal but if you allow time, it’ll heal. Also a reminder that everyone’s healing time is different but just remember to be patient with yourself and trust the process.🤍
PS. Make sure you drink enough water today and stay hydrated!! Sometimes it’s so easy to neglect tasks like these that benefit our mind and body so much and I’m guilty of it myself but we got this together!!
It doesn’t matter how much love you have for someone, you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. It doesn’t matter if you see their “potential” only THEY can reach that potential and it is not up to you to find it for them.
You know you deserve better but you settle because you love them when they don’t even love themselves enough to want better for themselves. If they’re settling for this version of themselves, doesn’t mean you have to as well.
Prioritise yourself and what you actually deserve and I know it hurts sometimes but the reality is it may not be them that you need after all. You’re going to be okay.🤍
PS. This is something I struggled to understand for a while but honestly the moment I understood it, I realised my worth is so much more than to settle for certain people in my life and it’s so free-ing to let go. I know it’s hard but sometimes we have to find great discomfort to finally reach true comfort.🤍
... you deserve better than how you were treated.
You deserve so much more than the cards you’ve been dealt and I know it seems hard right now but it’s okay to continue moving forward and you owe it to yourself to do so.🤍
PS. Take care of yourself today and be compassionate to your mind and body.
Somewhere along the way someone made you feel like it’s a bad thing to ask for help but it’s not and it’s never too late.
Asking for help doesn’t make you weak, it doesn’t make you lose credibility and it doesn’t make you any less of who you are.
Also, I know that social media and some of the people around you may make it seem like they have it all figured out but nobody really does and that’s okay! So don’t be afraid to ask when you need it because there is always someone ready to lend a hand.
PS. I know I try to stay positive on here but today I’m feeling absolutely drained 🥺 I’m going to try my best to do little self care things throughout the day and I hope you do so too for your own well-being. Sending love🤍
