Maybe this isn't your ideal outcome but maybe...

... it needed to be this way to save you from something worse.

I know you were hoping it would have worked out another way but maybe it needed to happen this way to save you from something worse down the road. I guess we will never know and I guess it’ll always be a “maybe” but find comfort in knowing that maybe it’s better that you didn’t have to find out that way. Trust the process, you’re being protected.🤍

PS. Find comfort in knowing that what “could have been” never happened for reasons that are in YOUR favour.🤍

Don't be afraid to put your mental health first.

It’s so easy to take care of the rest of the world but why do we hesitate to take care of ourselves first?

Somewhere along the way, someone or something made you believe that your mental health isn’t a priority and I’m here to remind you that IT IS. 

Don’t be afraid to put your mental health first and take care of yourself. I promise it’s okay! The right people will always understand and the wrong people don’t deserve a place in your life. Your mind and body deserve the same compassion you give others.🤍

PS. I know it’s scary to think that you’re worthy of giving yourself all the love you offer to others but you are and if only you could see yourself from my eyes because I promise you’re worth too much to not love yourself.🤍

It is okay to make mistakes,

 It is okay to be upset.

But it is also okay to forgive yourself.

It is okay to grow.

It is okay! You have grown so much from where you used to be so why are you still being so hard on yourself? This is your first time navigating this life and you didn’t know better at the time. 

Forgive yourself. you know it as much as I do that we can’t go back and change where we’ve been but you get to choose where you’re heading.🤍

PS. It is also important that I mention it’s time to stop blaming yourself for the mistakes that weren’t yours to carry, alright? I’m sorry they made you believe it was your fault, it wasn’t.

It is okay to miss someone and still recognise you deserve better than who they were to you.

This is such a complicated feeling because you have some days where you understand you deserved better and aren’t willing to settle for who they were to you but then you have other days where you miss them a little more than usual and you wish they were still in your life. Both are okay! Both are apart of moving forward and healing. It’s a complicated feeling but it’s important to acknowledge it. Rooting for your inner happiness and peace.🤍

PS. I hope it becomes easier to understand why things happened this way for you and I hope you reach a point where you are at peace with how things worked out. 

You are going to get through this and it is going to be worth it.

I feel like right now especially, everyday just seems like it is not going to change but it will, you deserve the world and even on the days you feel like it is going to be hard to overcome this, just know you will and all of your efforts are going to be worth it.

You are not alone in feeling this way and I know that social media and people around you may make you feel like everyone but you is progressing but that’s not the case! You’re doing great and you’re going to get through this 🤍

Stop blaming yourself for the mistakes that weren't yours to carry in the first place.

I know someone convinced you that it was your fault and maybe you convinced yourself too but deep down it wasn’t. Deep down you know that and it’s time to stop blaming yourself for mistakes that weren’t yours, it’s time to let go of always being the one to take the fall. 🤍

You are enough. Stop thinking otherwise.

You are enough. 

I know how easy it is to compare yourself to others and feel like you aren’t good enough but you are and anyone who has made you feel like you’re not, doesn’t deserve you. I hope you know that.

PS. Stop comparing your journey to someone else’s, you are on different paths for a reason. Make sure you are kind to yourself today.

Stop breaking your own heart by choosing others over yourself.

You have spent so long choosing others over yourself and it has led to a lot of moments of heartbreak you didn’t deserve to go through. 

It’s time to choose you, for you. 

You deserve it. Seriously!🤍

PS. I am rooting for your happiness and sending you lots of love, be kind to yourself today and trust your intuition 🤍

It is easy to think about what could have been, but don't forget...

 ..... to be grateful for what it is.

In the midst of wondering how things could have turned out and feeling that resentment and hurt, remind yourself of how things did turn out and why you’re grateful they did this way. You know it better than anyone, even if it hurts.

As much as I know things happen for a reason I still can’t help but hold on to the regret of how some things could have been but it’s important I remind myself they didn’t work out that way for a reason and is there is so much better for me, even if it hurts to acknowledge right now. So if you’re feeling the same, I hope this gives you comfort and opens your eyes to why it needed to be this way 🥺🤍

PS. Take this as a reminder to put your mental health first today and do at least one kind thing for yourself 🤍