I’m honestly going to make this year amazing no matter what. I cannot take another bad one and I don’t want to settle for anything less.

You could say I’ve been broken and destroyed time and time again and it was only natural for me to put up boundaries in order to protect myself from anyone else becoming so close to me. These boundaries are like checkpoints, rules and regulations you must follow in order to pass. I guess what I’m trying to say is im just waiting for someone to be able to surpass my boundaries and be deemed as ‘won’t hurt me,’ so far none are worthy..

..maybe I’m not waiting for the perfect one, maybe I’m just waiting for someone that I willingly will just let the boundaries fall for them.

If another girl steals him away,

Let it be. If he really did care about you, he would have brushed the other girl off, he would have realised what he was doing was wrong, he would’ve told her to back off and go find someone else, but instead, he allowed her to take him away from you. And you don’t want a guy like that, because that ain’t a man, that’s just another horny little boy. See, real men are loyal. And loyal men don’t get stolen.

Recovery is one of the hardest things you will ever do. But, trust me when I say that it is so very worthwhile. Your breathing gets easier. Your tears stop falling. Your smiles get true. And your heart gets stronger.

Whatever you do, follow your instinct. If something feels wrong to you, acknowledge it. Tell yourself it doesn’t feel right. Do not let yourself get into things you didn’t actually want to get into. Value your comfort and safety over everything else. Trust your gut.

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Tick tock tick tock... what time is it? It's STORYTIME with me :) Come check out my first advice video... on FAKE FRIENDS.
Find out why "best friends forever" and "chicks before dicks" to me are BULLSHITS.

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It’s disappointing when you’ve been talking to a guy and you like them and then suddenly they just stop talking to you and ignore you. Then you have to watch them flirt with other girls in front of you and you can’t say anything to him because the distance between you and him have drifted...

The best feeling in the world is when you just stop having feelings for someone. Romantic, friendship, everything. You look at them and just feel nothing. When you just feel at peace because that person is gone from your life. That’s how you know that they should stay gone.

Catching feelings for someone when you know that being in a relationship isn’t on the agenda for you any time soon is /really/ annoying.

Committing to someone really does scare me to be honest. I mean, you're going to break up with every single person you're with throughout your entire lifetime except for one. And that one you'll probably marry. But then you're there thinking you've found your person for life and then something happens and you could end up getting divorced and then you're all alone again. I don't know, I am probably just saying that because I haven't found someone whose heart connects with mine in the same way… but for me that shit is scary to think about.